Why men cheat: The six reasons why men play away
  
4. The 'one last time' syndrome
In this article

4. The 'one last time' syndrome


Making a long-term commitment to your other half can be pretty daunting but Helen found that it can be this feeling of 'the end' that can prompt men into cheating. 

Helen says: "They feel they can hold onto their previous identity with one last experience of their old life. They mistakenly believe that one final memory will sustain them for years ahead of ‘being good.’


What to do: This is just a fantasy. ‘One last time’ won’t make them feel any more experienced than they already felt when they committed.

If you suspect your partner is daunted by the idea of long-term sexual fidelity, embrace their sexual appetite and encourage them to talk about things they would like to try and to share their fantasies so they feel you will help them fulfill them rather than hanker them.

Why not organize a naughty weekend away with sexy lingerie and some fun masks and ropes and pretend you’ve just met. Even if it’s just ten minutes from home."


Love & Sex Editor
2013/01/29
Rank this page: 


Don't miss...
Dr. Seuss - His best quotes17 Things You Should Never Say To A Dog Lover
Play our Sudoku game!Celebrity silver foxes: hot men with grey hair
Latest… 2016/12/11
Guides
Videos
Female Masturbation: Tips To Take You Over The Edge
Erotic games: 5 ideas to spice up your sex life
Get your head (and hands) around the Male G spot
What is an open relationship?
See all Love & Sex guides
Video: The secrets behind the way you hold your drink
See all Love & Sex videos