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3. In love but lacking a spark


This won't be something that you like to hear but Helen found that a large amount of men basically wanted to have their cake and eat it. 

She said: "I was surprised by how many men said they loved their wives deeply and were not looking to end their marriage, but wanted ‘something extra’. Not necessarily sex but the romance - dinners and dates. Many expressed they wanted to ‘feel like they looked forward to seeing someone again.’"

This might sound like the worst thing ever to most people, probably because it is, but the idea of wanting a bit of a spark put back in our relationship is one that we can all identify with. 


Helen says: "Sadly familiarity can cancel out passion even though familiarity is what we all want from a relationship. It’s easy to steer your relationship away from dreary domesticity though and become fascinated in each other again."


Love & Sex Editor
2013/01/29
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