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Laura's story - 2 guys & 1 girl

 

Laura*, 28, assistant buyer from Berkshire

While I was studying, I spent a year in an American university. I shared my room with a girl who was less than friendly towards me.

The only thing I liked about her was Ted, her boyfriend! And my attraction to him didn't seem to go unnoticed by him. Perhaps it's not surprising she didn't like me.

As I'm half French, he often told me about the reputation French girls have for being really up for sex. I didn't argue with him as I wanted him to want me!

One weekend, when my room mate had gone away to her parents, I agreed to have a drink with him in the house he shared with some other students. He started working his charm on me, one thing led to another and we ended up in bed together.

A few minutes later, one of his friends came in the room and Ted said something along the lines of: "You're so beautiful. We both really like you... What do you think? We could have a lot of fun the three of us."

I was really flattered and I felt like a goddess so I accepted.

But I soon got the impression that they were re-enacting a scene from a porn film: they didn't have any real technique, there was no gentleness, just grunts and lots of swearing and insulting words. You know the sort of thing.

After-effect
I got home and felt disgusting! Just dirty and used.

I didn't say anything to my room mate but others made sure she found out. She made life really difficult for me: she vandalized and destroyed a lot of my belongings and she basically destroyed my reputation, although I have to admit I deserved it.

Other girls on the campus called me a bitch and the boys made it quite clear what they thought of me with varyingly inventive obscene gestures.

Ted and his friend were quite happy to ignore me! It got so bad that I arranged to return to the UK earlier than planned.

When I got back, I fell into a depression and I couldn't talk about what had happened with anyone, I was so ashamed. It took me two years to regain my confidence.




  
  

Love & Sex Editor
2011/07/16
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