The Beginner's Guide to BDSM
  
Control him
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Control him


A lot of times sex can be controlled by the guy - this is exactly what you want to get away from in this dynamic. 

"Sit him on a chair and secure his hands behind his back with soft handcuffs (not the metal kind). Ride him like he’s your dildo and control his orgasm to suit you."

Seeing you have the time of your life purely from him will be mind-blowing. 


Love & Sex Editor
2013/01/19
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