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The 8 commandments of sex
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Ogling, voyeurism

 

 - Ogling, voyeurism
Men love to look at beautiful women. That's why they have lads mags (and before they discover lads' mags, they flip through the underwear section of their mums' catalogues!). Men are voyeurs, and they get turned on visually. So why deprive them of what they want to see? Stop turning the lights out (a few candles are fine!) and allow him the pleasure of looking at you. 

Suggestive poses will highlight your best assets: arch your back, part your legs slightly, take your bra off and don't cross your arms over your chest! And don't keep your eyes closed: enjoy watching the show. Meeting each other's gazes is a real turn-on too.  

Our advice:
Men like to ogle you, so indulge him: set yourselves up in front of a mirror. If what you see makes you feel uncomfortable, keep your back to the mirror. He'll be able to appreciate his performance and he'll feel like he's getting a private show! 




  
  

Sarah Horrocks
2008/06/28
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