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The 8 commandments of sex
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Turning him on, arousing him

 

 - Turning him on, arousing him
Turning him on isn't just about a certain part of his anatomy. A plunging neckline, a knowing smile and a little cheeky little glance can go a long way! This is what we call the approach technique: making him forget all about his previous desires and sending him an invitation that will make him go weak at the knees. It all starts from here: once he's aroused, even the slightest gesture on your part will feel like a prelude to uncontainable pleasure for him! 

Learn to take your time and don't forget that making him wait will make him want you all the more. Don't give in to what your body's telling you on your first night together; make him understand you're interested. Let the sparks fly, but don't go for a full-on explosion the first time. It'll be worth it in the end! It's all about suggestion: let your strap slip down to unveil your bare shoulder, send him a furtive glance before you touch him, or say it with a smile or a silence - gestures can often speak louder than words.  

Our advice: Here's a road-tested little formula that's bound to get him begging you for more...  
Get him to sit on the bed and forbid him to touch you until you say so. All he can do is watch. Wearing suitably sexy, skimpy clothing (sexy undies, heels and his shirt make a good combo), give him a brief but potent striptease and then start touching yourself, slowly, looking him in the eyes from time to time. Men are obsessed with female masturbation and see it as an ultimate fantasy, and he's sure to find it arousing. It's up to you to decide when he can join in...




  
  

Sarah Horrocks
2008/06/28
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