Banned in the bedroom: the things we can't learn to love...
  
Dislike of giving oral sex, giving head, blowjobs
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Dislike of giving oral sex, giving head, blowjobs


I can't stand them! I know guys love them though. I think it's probably the feel and size of my partner's penis that puts me off. He's massive!
Olivia, 31, receptionist, Hull

When I treat my boyfriend to a blowjob, I feel like he's no longer taking my needs into consideration and he's just focused on his own personal pleasure. I get bored and then I'm completely turned off.
Jess, 28, lawyer, Cardiff

I hate giving head. It's not from lack of trying though! The taste and the smell are unbearable, even if my boyfriend's just stepped straight out of the shower! Just thinking about it makes me retch.
Claire, 28, shop assistant, Brixton

My boyfriend often insists that I head south of his belt, so sometimes I'll force myself because I know he likes it but I feel like an object and I find that degrading and not very romantic.
Sophie, 32, mother, Bolton

It makes me want to throw up so I never do it, much to my boyfriend's dissatisfaction. I try to find other ways of satisfying him, like using my hands.
Fiona, 23, shop assistant, Slough

I don't like facial ejaculation and nobody's going to force me to endure it. It's my body and I find that sort of thing too degrading!
Becky, 29, unemployed, Newcastle

I hate blowjobs... it's not the act exactly, it's just that I can't do the deep throat thing and I always end up gagging and ruining the moment. My husband loves it though so I try and use my hands and just put my mouth round the tip - it's just about bareable.
Caroline, 36, managing director, Reading


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2012/03/12
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