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Sexual imbalance between men and women
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Sexual imbalance between men and women


I've never had any problems before but Claire has got such a high sex drive that I'm no longer in the mood. In the beginning it was quite fun to be with someone who wants sex all the time but it's been a year now and I can't meet her expectations anymore. Over time, I feel like I've become a sex toy to her. It's got so bad that when it's her that initiates sex, I can't even keep it up. On the other hand, my sex drive returns when it's me who makes the first move but unfortunately I don't get the opportunity very often.

> Expert's opinion
Claire is in a masculine position, and through a reversal of roles, Ian finds himself obliged to adopt a feminine position. Why did this situation suit him at first? Probably because he enjoyed being courted in this way, it would have been a great boost to his ego, but over time, his desires have evolved. Unfortunately, the more Ian keeps his guard up, the more Claire worries and "jumps" on him to reassure him. It's a vicious circle!

> The (getting some) action plan
If he's had enough of being considered as a sex object, all Ian has to do is reverse the roles, he holds the key! He should surprise Claire and not leave her a choice. Playing with handcuffs or silk ties is ideal in this sort of situation as it allows the balance of sexual roles to be restored. And if Claire is able to, she should try to hide her ardent desire for Ian, and give him time to court her and really want her again...


Love & Sex Editor
2012/01/14
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