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Men's sex drive and desire for other women
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Men's sex drive and desire for other women


Diane and I have been together for 7 years now. Our sex life has always been fantastic but in the last 6 months, I haven't wanted to sleep with her. She hasn't changed, I still find her beautiful and I'm still in love with her but she just doesn't do it for me like she used to. I am, however, finding myself more and more attracted to other women. I feel like I can't control my sex drive anymore. We make love no more than 2 or 3 times a month now and we're both aware that this drop in activity isn't doing our relationship any favours.

> Expert's opinion
This couple have a lot of potential for restoring their sexual equilibirum. Liam is very much in love and it's the couple as a whole that has acknowledged the problem. It's a turning point in the relationship, where changes are necessary. This situation is very common.

> The (getting some) action plan
It would be a shame for Liam to go looking elsewhere. Diane and Liam should consider introducing a third person into their sex life so Liam can satisfy his urge for other women. This doesn't mean the third person has to be real though! Why not imagine erotic scenarios or indulge in role play. Try wearing a wig or a costume, or meeting somewhere new and pretending you don't know each other yet.


Love & Sex Editor
2012/01/14
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