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Get your head (and hands) around the Male G spot

by the editorial team Published on February 9, 2013

Have you ever wanted to make your man scream out with pleasure? Well then it's best you get to grip with the male G spot quickly.

The Male G Spot

Yep, it's not just us ladies that get all the fun, guys have a G spot too and when you find it the results can be just as explosive.

Most people don't know about this secret spot, mainly because it's hidden in a place not everybody is willing to go (hint, his bum).

So for all those interested we talked to Sexpert for Lovehoney Hella Walkington to get her saucy tips for stimulating his G spot.

Want to get to grips with the male G spot? Here's how.

What is it:

OK so first off it's great to know what it actually is! Most of us are in touch with our own G spot if we're lucky, but getting your head around your man's is another challenge.

Hella says: "A guy’s G spot, also known as the P spot, is his prostate gland. That’s the gland responsible for producing the majority of his seminal fluid, but it’s also one of his most sensitive erogenous zones.

You can reach his prostate via his bottom and you’ll find it around 3 inches inside on the part of his anus that’s closest to his genitals.

It is about the size and shape of a walnut, and you’ll feel a rough and slightly raised patch of skin."

Sounds lovely doesn't it - but trust us you'll like it a lot more when you see what it can do.

How to hit the spot:
It's best to try to find his G spot with your finger while you're giving him oral so he's nice and relaxed. So while you’re giving him the time of his life at the front, start to focus your attentions with your hands round the back.

Try massaging the part of skin between his anus and his testicles (his perineum), this is a really sensitive and explosive place for guys so it will get him nice and ready.

Next brush your finger around his bum hole teasingly, grab some lube and slip your finger in - gently! Try to go about three inches inside or until you can feel the small 'walnut' like area - when you get to this point you're at the right point.

It might feel a bit weird for you both at first but he’ll be loving it in no time. We feel like we should say be prepared for him to cum pretty quickly after this point!

Once your finger is inside try mimicking a ‘come hither’ movement with your finger. This will massage his spot and make him go crazy - try to think what you like when your partner is hitting your G spot and replicate it.

Hella says: “Stroking motions similar to those you’d use on your own G spot are ideal. Take the same care and time as you’d use on yourself when building up pressure and speed, using a very light touch at first.”

Once you’ve got this down you and your partner can try different things to see what he likes. Maybe even introducing some toys into the situation like butt plugs, prostate massagers and beads which can be incredible fun for your guy.

You can also try using your mouth around this area if you want to filth it up a bit - preferably post shower.

Our top tips for finding his spot:

1. Use lube

Shoving your finger into your man’s private passage is not going to go down well unless you’ve given a bit of consideration - always have some lube at the ready.

2. Nail care

If you’re using your finger rather than a sex toy or prostate massager then make sure your nails are neat, short and completely smooth.

3. Take a shower
Making sure you've both had a shower and *gone to the toilet* before any anal action is always best for obvious reasons...

4. Don’t freak out

If your guy wants you to experiment with his G spot it doesn’t mean anything ridiculous like he's gay so don't freak out. The same for your partner - if he thinks it's weird try to assure him that it's totally natural and normal to want to experiment with something so explosive!

5. Toys can be welcome

There are whole ranges dedicated to working his spot so our advice is to invest in a few!

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