How to have an orgasm: Easy ways to the big O
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While men don't need a lot of preparation to get down and dirty, the same cannot be said for most girls. 

Hela says: Spending time on foreplay is a must. It takes a little while for a gal to get going; the erectile tissue in the vulva needs to become fully aroused in order for you to climax.

Learn how you best respond to foreplay by masturbating and experimenting with techniques. Once you know what really gets you going, show your partner by placing his hand over yours while you pleasure yourself, his fingertips sitting level with yours.


Not only will he find this a huge turn on, he’ll also learn to get the rhythm right. When he takes over, help him find the right pressure by gently pressing down on his fingertips as he works his magic. If he presses too hard, ask him to do it a little lighter.
 
You can maximize your chances of orgasm through penetration by moving on from foreplay when you feel yourself on the approach to climax and moving swiftly onto sex that matches your orgasmic rhythm."

Or you can just combine the two; keeping him giving you some extra attention while you're having sex will guarantee you'll have the best orgasm of your life. 

 
 


Love & Sex Editor
2012/09/05
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