How to have an orgasm: Easy ways to the big O
  
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Free your mind


In the world we live in there is no end to the pressure to perform, and the bedroom is no exception.

But by focusing on what you should do, rather than what you like, you can cut yourself off from a whole lot more. There is no place for hang ups when you're getting hot and heavy... 

Hela says: "Far too many women feel pressure to sexually perform like a porn star, either because they feel that’s what they should aspire to or because they think it’s what their partner wants.

You partner wants a mutual, sexually satisfying relationship and so do you, so don’t feel like you have to tense your ass or get into backbreaking positions because you think it’ll make sex better.

Go with what feels good and natural - you'll be far more likely to orgasm."


Love & Sex Editor
2012/09/05
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