How to give a good hand job
 Photo 12/12 
Ask him
In this article

Ask him


It's no secret that most guys have a fair bit of experience when it comes to what they like in a hand job!

It'll feel different when you do it, but asking him what he likes when he does it himself can give you some invaluable pointers.

Communication is the key to achieving ultimate pleasure, so don't be afraid to ask. Have him whisper some tips in your ear if he's bashful, and encourage him to instruct you as you go.

Or you could follow Emma Ziff's tip and get him to give you a more 'hands-on' lesson. "Watch him masturbate," she says. "What he does, method, pace, direction. It may be a turn-on for you both."

As every guy's different, he's in the best position to tell you what's working and what's not.

"You don't have to be a porn star," Emma adds. "It's an art form as well as a science. Most importantly, have fun!"


Love & Sex Editor
2012/09/28
Reader ranking:3/5 
Rank this page: 

Article Plan How to give a good hand job

Don't miss...
Decision-making: A guide for the indecisiveSAG Awards 2014: Stars on the red carpet
Interview with Eva Mendes: 2012 The best ideas for New Year's Eve worldwide!
Latest… 2017/07/26
Guides
Videos
Female Masturbation: Tips To Take You Over The Edge
Erotic games: 5 ideas to spice up your sex life
Get your head (and hands) around the Male G spot
What is an open relationship?
See all Love & Sex guides
Video: The secrets behind the way you hold your drink
See all Love & Sex videos