How to give a good hand job
  
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Get a grip


Now you're in position, you need to figure out how to, ahem, 'get to grips' with his equipment.

It's not necessarily about clinging on with all five fingers. Dr. Stocchi suggests leaving a couple of digtis free to play around: "Use three fingers while the 'floating' bottom two fingers provide the sensation of being more in contact with the testicles."

This gives a more immersive feeling; hand jobs, like sex, are about more than just the penis.

Most men like a firm grip on their shaft, but remember, it's a delicate part of his anatomy — don't manhandle his manhood too hard! 

If you're unsure, try different grips and gauge his reaction, or ask him outright, "Harder? Softer?" 


Love & Sex Editor
2012/09/28
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