The art of the flirty text
  
Take your time
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Take your time


We know it's tempting, but never reply to a message right away. You'll only regret it five minutes later, try to write something else, and feel like an over-texter.

Play it cool, even if you're not feeling it. Plus, leaving a bit of time before you reply gives you the chance to dream up the ultimate flirty message.

"Don't respond too quickly but on the other hand don't keep him waiting too long. Just give him a little space to think," says James. Space to think about what? You of course!

Kate is a pro at playing it cool and has three cardinal rules
:

1) Never send too many texts. A couple a day will do just fine

2) Never send 'Did you get my message?' texts - he got it.

3) Don't always be the one to initiate every texting session.

Basically, less is more.


Love & Sex Editor
2012/09/12
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