The Beginner's Guide to BDSM
  
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If you want to get your man to realize that you're in control in the bedroom there's no room to mess about. (Well a bit of laughter never hurt anyone, but stick to your guns.)

Nichi says it's all about letting him know you're the one in charge.

"Start by telling him he’s not going to get what he wants until you do," she says. "Then demand he pleasure you with his fingers or tongue before he gets so much as a nail laid on him."

He'll be so turned on by your newfound 'no-nonsense naughtiness' he'll do anything you want him to.


Love & Sex Editor
2013/01/19
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