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I'm attracted to other men

 
I'm attracted to other men

During the early ‘honeymoon’ period of a relationship, when you’ve only got eyes for your man, you don’t see other men in the same way.  This stage can last from between a few weeks or months to a few years, depending on the strength of the attraction between you and the circumstances of your relationship.  As you become more comfortable with someone, you may find yourself slipping into a sexual routine and looking at other men.

At this point, you need to remember not to make yourself feel guilty, it’s normal to find other people attractive.  Just because you’re in a relationship, doesn’t mean that your body has started working in a different way.  It’s essential to accept this and not to beat yourself up about it.  Cheating is always a no-no, but noticing other men and finding them sexually attractive is a part of life.

Once you’ve come to terms with this, you’ll feel liberated by continuing your relationship, even though you find other men attractive.  This is a normal part of human nature.




  
  

Love & Sex Editor
2006/07/19
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