Salima, 29, London
Luke and I got on really well: we used to go for lunch together every day at work, text each other at evenings and weekends and everyone at work used to tease us and say we were in love, but nothing ever happened. I got bored of being shy and letting the situation drag on so I decided to make a move and I sent him a text to ask him if he wanted to come round for dinner and stay the night afterwards. No reply until the next day when I got a text off him saying "Sorry if you got the wrong impression but I thought you knew I was married. We're still friends right?"
That's the last time I make the first move!