In the fairytales you used to read when you were a little girl, the woman always stayed put in her locked tower, waiting for her knight to come and save her. She never made the first move. She may have been bored to tears reading OK! magazine from cover-to-cover, but she sat tight. While fairytales are hardly an accurate depiction of modern life, if there's still a part of you that likes the idea of Prince Charming sweeping you off your feet, making the first move might not sit well with your ideals.