Accept that you have broken up
It might sound counterproductive, but the first thing you have to do if you want to get your ex back is accept that you have broken up.
Your emotions run really high when you're going through a break up and it's easy to go into denial, especially if you want your ex back, but you need to get to the stage where you can see that the relationship was faulty.
What you're going to try to do now is not fix a break up, but create a new relationship, just with the same person.
"A break up is called a break up because the relationship is broken," says Kuldeep.