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Survey: You and your relationship



Survey results:
Q1 - Who made the first move?
6 %
2 %
You can't remember
90 %
Q2 - When you argue:
You're always the one who ends up saying sorry
55 %
You both admit you were wrong and make up
1 %
You wait for him to come and apologise to you
43 %
Q3 - What are you like in bed?
Passive - you ususally let him take charge
64 %
Active - you're often the one who takes the initiative
34 %
Either - it depends how you're feeling at the time
1 %
Q4 - If he ever cheated on you, what would you do?
You'd be devastated, but you'd forgive him
75 %
You'd leave him straight away
0 %
You'd do all you could to get your own back
23 %
Q5 - Do you talk politics with him?
Yes, you have the same views
0 %
Yes - you don't always agree, but you respect each other's opinions
64 %
No, it's best avoided - he doesn't like you to contradict him
24 %
Yes but he doesn't think the same way as you, and you don't like it
10 %
Q6 - Who drives?
It depends who wants to and who's tired
83 %
He always drives
0 %
You always drive
16 %
Q7 - Who decides how you bring up your children?
You decide on your own most of the time
67 %
You make every decision together
1 %
You let him have the last word - he's the father figure of authority!
30 %
Q8 - How do you run your household?
He lends a hand when you ask him to
38 %
You cook, garden and do DIY together
25 %
You do everything
9 %
You do the cooking, shopping and housework and he does the gardening and DIY
25 %
Q9 - Who controls your accounts?
He does - you hate numbers
25 %
You do - he never thinks to do it
30 %
Whoever thinks to do it first
44 %
Q10 - How do you feel about who earns the most?
He likes to earn more than you, just so he feels like the breadwinner
17 %
It doesn't matter who earns the most
66 %
You want to earn at least as much as him so that you're totally independent
16 %
Q11 - Who pays the bill when you eat out?
He usually he does the gallant thing
46 %
You go halves
14 %
You take it in turns
31 %
You pay because he's always broke
6 %
Q12 - Who organises your social life and nights out?
He normally does - he's got loads of friends
12 %
You normally do - he's not very organised
18 %
It depends on the occasion
68 %
Q13 - Do you ever go out separately?
Yes, you have your girls' nights out and he watches the footy with the lads
60 %
He likes going out with his mates but someone has to look after the kids - usually you!
10 %
What with the gym, going to the cinema, getting your nails done etc, your diary's pretty full, but he tends to stay at home
6 %
You only go out together
22 %
Q14 - Who decides what film you watch?
You read the reviews and decide between you
41 %
You take it in turns to choose
38 %
He chooses, because he hates everything you like
12 %
You choose, because he knows nothing about good films
7 %
Q15 - How old are you?
46 %
29 %
16 %
8 %
Q16 - Do you have children?
33 %
66 %



Sarah Horrocks
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