Get hot in the bedroom
If you're not feeling the passion, then we're willing to bet you're not all that satisfied when it comes to getting frisky.
Next time you're in the mood (after date night, perhaps?), put a little thought into your actions and try to shake up your habits. There's nothing worse than boring sex.
"Is there something that you know they really like? Is there somewhere (don’t get arrested, now) where you think they get a real kick out of getting frisky?" suggests Ali.
"The key to making this work is to surprise but not terrify. You know your partner best so go with what you know will work for them."
Don't go too crazy all at once - just add a little extra sass to your sauciness. You'll both appreciate it!