A life full of responsibilities is something no-one can do anything about - having fun while you're coping with it is something you can.
Denise says: "It is essential to have fun together so why not both write a list of 10 simple pleasures that you can share."
It's alright having something that you can enjoy but involving your partner in that too can do wonders for putting some energy back into your relationship.
As Denise says: "Having a hobby or interest together is a wonderful recharger. Learn to dance - that way you enter a new way of communication removed from the everyday life."