Telling your partner
Telling your partner is by far the scariest part of this journey but without sounding harsh, it will be the part that will bring you the most relief afterwards.
Kuldeep says: "The most important bit is to ask them if are they happy with the relationship. If they come back and say that they are then the second part of the talk is to explain that you're not feeling happy."
Rather than staying in your relationship and becoming resentful and bitter it’s much healthier to say that I love you enough to want you to be happy and I don’t think that either of us are happy in this relationship anymore.
If anything this is a much more loving thing to do than to be with someone who you no longer want to be with and give them false hope."
Your partner can't hold it against you for too long so don't worry, ultimately you have to do what's best for you, you'll never have a good relationship if your heart's not in it.
Pick yourself up and move on.